As a female, how can you maintain a long-term relationship with your male beloved (include husband, lover, partner, friend, father, brother, son)? 1. Lower your expectation for him. 　　降低你对他的期望值。 　　2. Never ask too much from him. 　　不要以爱的名义提很多要求。 　　3. Never try to control him. 　　永远不要试图控制他，无论以强硬态度或设置温柔陷阱。 　　4. Never try to educate him. 　　永远不要试图教育他。男人永远比你博学。 　　5. Never treat him as one of your belongings. So no gain, no lose. 永远不要认为他是属于你的。所以，从未得到哪会担心失去？ 　　6. Trust him and leave him more freedom. 　　永远信任他，给他更多的自由空间。 　　7. Never try to show that you are smarter than him. 　　永远不要试图证明你比他聪明。 　　8. Never put much pressure or burden on him. 　　不要施加给他很多压力和负担。 　　9. Appreciate what’s good on him; accept what’s bad on him as well. 　　欣赏他优秀的一面，同时接受他差劲的一面。 　　10. Keep communicating with him. 　　不断和他沟通。 　　11. Take care of him in daily life if you are capable. 　　如果可能，要在生活上照顾他。 　　12. Take it easy and let him feel easy. 　　营造两人之间的轻松氛围。 　　13. More compliments and less criticism. 　　多一些赞美鼓励，少一些批评挑剔。 　　14. Try to find common goals to fulfill, common things to do. 　　创造共同目标，发现共同兴趣。一起做事很重要。 　　15. Make some common friends. 　　培养共同的朋友圈。 　　16. Let him know that you need, thank, like or love him. 　　让他知道你需要他，喜欢他或是爱他。 　　17. Think it over before you say “No” to him. 　　在拒绝他之前要好好想想。“不”字是很伤人的。 　　18. Always give him a hand if you can. 　　如果可以，尽可能帮助他。 　　19. Keep finding the things that make you happy; ignoring the things that make you upset. 　　寻找令你快乐的事，忽略让你烦恼的东西。 　　20. Keep yourself happy, lovely, unique and self-esteem. 　　让自己成为一个快乐，可爱，独特，自尊的女性。 　　21. To be honest, natural and let him know what you need from him. 　　永远诚实，自然地告诉他你需要他为你做些什么。 　　22. Improve and enrich yourself to keep your fascination. 　　不断提高修养，丰富知识，保持你自己的魅力。 　　23. Have your own career, savings and friends. 　　追求自己的事业，要有应急的积蓄，好朋友不可少。 　　24. Never sacrifice yourself for him. 　　永远不要为了他牺牲自己的主要需求。 　　25. Never stop having faith in love even though you may lose him some day. 　　相信爱的存在，即便你还是最终失去了他。 　　26. If you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, the most important issue is not about 　　his/her wealth, knowledge, social position and looking. Instead those factors you should ask 　　ourself "How long can we tolerate each other." 　　如果你打算和一个人生活一辈子，重要的不是他的财富，学识，地位或是相貌。你其实应 　　该问问自己： “我们能相互忍耐多久？”